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Dating taking things slowly

Having someone at my side was better than having no one.Eventually I ended the relationship, but it came at a high price.

Soon after I started dating, I became serious with a woman I'll call Jennifer.Often, their loneliness is so acute that they'll attach themselves to the first person who shows the slightest interest in them.Having someone who will hold them and tell them how much they're needed or loved will overcome the nagging feeling in the back of their mind that the relationship isn't right—at least for a while.When it comes to men, there are five things you need to know about them that affects their behavior after they've lost a spouse.1.Widowers Have an Internal Need for Relationships A few weeks after my late wife, Krista, and I were married, we had dinner with her grandmother, a widow.However, widowers who aren't serious about starting over with you can only fake these relationships for so long.

Sooner or later, the doubts that have been nagging them since they first became serious with you will overwhelm their desire for companionship.

I lost a good friend, and Jennifer ended up with a broken heart and confused feelings.

If you want to avoid giving your heart to a man who's not ready to move on, my advice is to take things slowly—especially in the first few months of the relationship.

During dinner, her grandmother told us that a neighbor and good friend had recently passed away after a long illness.

After we expressed our condolences, her grandmother told us how the woman's husband had stopped by to invite her to the funeral.

Finally, I gave in to the feelings and signed up with an online dating site and went on my first widower date a few weeks later. We fell in love and were married 15 months after Krista died. And while there's nothing wrong with dating months or weeks after a spouse dies, most widowers who start dating again are still grieving the loss of their spouse.