Boyfriend goes on online dating sites
now wouldn't that be a hoot :-) But this time, you'll be all the more wiser. Do yourself a favor and move on, and next time don't get so invested before you know who the person is you are dealing with. Life's too short to hang on to something that makes you worry and wonder. and I bet a day didn't go buy that they were "wondering" how the other felt.... that in itself answers are questions of "can I trust him... you might get back on POF and it'll match ya up again.. The relationship is over, it barely started to be honest, and now you only know enough to drive you nuts and make it easy for him to make you feel crazy.
Should have set up a meet and greet, and then you got your 100% answer. That doesn't mean he didn't open a new POF - he stayed on his other singles site. So how do I get him to change his behavior to that which will guarantee that he will keep doing it. And if you are a snoop, own up to it, lots of people are, there's no rule that you have to follow the rules of others, tell the guy right up front, I will be checking on you so don't play games with me. Or is the question more of "I'm really attracted to him and still want him to stick around and give me what I want.You haven't really said what you and he have discussed as far as comittment.One would defintiely think that 3 months of dating would "merit" some sort of relationship tie. Put your name back out there girl...don't expect him to graciously accept your move back into availability on the website.....funny how when the tables are turned, it isn't so gratifying.It could be something as insignificant as ego that causes him to seek attention from other females.
I also think it is funny that all his pictures on here are the ones he had when I meet him and he has the date of them as being made in 2011...
He may just like hitting on/flirting with women and needs it for his ego boost.
Or he could be the biggest cheat ever, you dont know now.
I should be more important then someone he talks to on POF as a friend. Keep checking up on him with your "friends account" or your bogus (current? Come back every few days and give us updates, many Forumites live vicariously through the common melodramas that neophytes come up with weekly.. Why does everyone make up a story about how they happened upon their lover on a dating site still looking?
There are a lot of things you do not know about them.
You are looking for validation to do what you know you need to do.