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In the non Jewish world, ours is what you would call an arranged marriage.I dislike that word though because in my mind, that equals a “forced” marriage.
A sit-in in our world is quite intimidating as it’s the first close contact a boy/girl has with the opposite gender as we are separated throughout our childhood.When I was almost 19, my neighbor from around the block was suggested to me.He was, for our circles, considered a bit older at the ripe age of 23.We spoke about our families, our time in seminary or Yeshivah (an institution that focuses on teaching Talmud to boys and young men) and other things. My parents gave me the option to meet him again the next day.We do not talk about the deeper stuff since we both come from the same background, so it’s usually a given that we will be on the same page. I was young, barely 19 and I probably (most assuredly) didn’t realize what a momentous decision this was. (of how much one could see from one meeting) Besides all the good things I heard about him, he was also nice and had a great sense of humor.My dear husband is everything I thought he was; caring, heart of gold, great sense of humor and does everything for me and the kids.
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We just work harder at making our marriage grow and the love as a result is a deep, long lasting one.
I’m happy to report that after 18 years, I’m still very happily in love and our marriage isn’t any different than any of yours.
And mine, like most others in my community was anything but. As a girl turns 18, it gives matchmakers a green light to start calling the parents.
I belong to a certain Hasidic sect so the suggestions were all going to be eligible young men from the same sect.
After giving it some thought I decided I had no valid reason to say no. A meeting was scheduled between the young man’s mother and myself. As she saw me she said: “You should know, I’m just as nervous as you”. As the conversation progressed, I relaxed and the meeting was actually nice.