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If you attained all these things, do you think your relationships would improve? Your environment and life experiences determine your mental and emotional state.
If there’s one thing I can guarantee, it’s this: there are no guarantees.It’s why BPD relationships tend to have a Honeymoon Period. So, you work hard everyday, convinced that you can make your BPD partner “better.” You want to be the hero! You keep telling yourself that you know your partner could be so much better. When you seek a repeat of the Honeymoon Period, you lose focus on reality. Knowing this fact, why would you engage in hour long arguments that get you nowhere? People with bad mindsets will sit in bed arguing until 3 in the morning. You can begin to take note of certain actions and behaviors that stem from them.When you try to “fix” your partner’s problems, you lose focus on reality. If your partner is being a cunty bitch, let her know. It’s a complete waste of time and you’ll trigger her abandonment. One of the most important factors in the health of any relationship is how you handle your emotions. A lack of emotional control will always lead to problems in your relationships and life.You’re never satisfied with yourself in the present. Drop whatever expectations you may have because expectations come from a focus on the future.It’s impossible to be strong and centered when your mind isn’t focused on the present. Too many people make the same, common mistakes in BPD relationships. You’ll trigger a lot of pain if you don’t change this mindset.I can smell my boyfriend’s cold treatment coming for days.
He asks for space and I give it, but as soon as I’m gone, he’s messaging me, giving me backlash and shiz.
I blame social media and bad parenting, along with other factors.
We have a society where everyone is trying to be someone that they’re not. Most people focus on a future self instead of who they are right now in the present moment.
For example, here’s a message I got from a woman who went through my Better BPD Relationships course: Thank you for your BPD course.
It’s brilliant and with all your other emails and articles, it’s assured me that what I’m doing is right.
This makes dating someone with BPD an impossible task. I know you have a good heart and you’re trying to make your BPD partner as happy as possible.