All members of community of our dating site are the single like you people who feel loneliness and just want to communicate with some men or women in Argentina and other countries because it is very difficult for them to have somebody for their soul in real everyday life.
I like the family, my children are independent and I need to form a part of a united family.HOWEVER, how genuine it all is, I've yet to work out.Its not unusual to meet a man here and have him profess his undying love 2-weeks later.Every single American and Argentine person has always a full part job, they are place hunters, they always have some business, which calls them to have no time, and no opportunity for making acquaintances with other singles, may be even with their neighbors. Are you looking for friendship or marriage, are you waiting for love or romance?Do not deceive yourself, you simple go home and have your everyday meeting with your supper and bed. In Argentina, ‘gorda’ is a very common, loving term of endearment.
Not only do you have to compete with the Argentine women who look impeccable in high heels and full makeup at the grocery store at 8am (while it totally crossed your mind to go in your pajamas), you have to compete with him. You start to doubt your own ‘from-the-shower-to-out-the-door-in-60 seconds-or less’ routine as you watch him meticulously exfoliate, shave, put on toner and anti-aging face cream, hair gel, cologne… For an Argentine man, that would constitute a late lunch. He never complains about always having to take his grandma to the doctor (which he follows up by taking her out for menta granizada gelato).
Most of the time, this isn't really the case which means that an unsuspecting and amorous expat could end up falling quite hard and getting her heart broken a zillion times..I don't think they're being cruel, its just a cultural thing.
Unlike in England, the man will not pull the reins, so it's up to us women to maintain a clear head and put things into perspective if we want to achieve anything long-term with an Argentine man. Argentine women are very jealous and posessive and after 4 years living here, I'm beginning to see why. As for the men..do all the chasing here, they pick up the bills etc..very macho.
Then you have your sleepless night dreaming about somebody near you whom you can embrace or simply associate.
Why do not spend your free time with Americans and Argentine singles like you, why do not try to have romance and love even when you can not fall asleep, why do not have somebody for communication from Argentina.
From a female perspective, Argentine men are 1000 times more forward than your average Brit and getting approached in a bar several times a night is the norm.