Dating man tip
You might be fine with this, but it’s important to consider carefully. The last thing you should do is enter the relationship thinking ‘I’ll change his mind’ – you most probably won’t and it’s a huge gamble.
You never know when you’ll find love – it often comes from the most surprising places.While it doesn’t take a genius to work out the difference there, you should bear in mind that everyone is different.Also, while your older man might lack the sex drive of a 22 year-old, he will likely have the experience to put many younger men to shame.More important is that fact that younger women are more willing to show their feminine side to win a man’s heart.Of course, they don’t have our experience, or our battle scars for that matter, but, this is beside the point. Or, you may decide that she is right, but, that finding a partner is just not worth the trouble.If you find it odd that his favourite bands are Genesis and ELO, then you will need to decide whether you can get used to that, or whether you will feel increasingly isolated.
Also remember that he will have the same dilemma with any references you make – they may make him feel old and distant from you.
We’re not saying your older man will be completely inflexible but you shouldn’t think you can change his ways once you’re in a relationship.
We use cultural references to express who we are and where we’ve come from.
And at e Harmony, as we’re focused on deep-down compatibility, who you connect with can be even more surprising.
You may find yourself considering dating an older man, and if it’s good enough for the likes of Demi Moore and Catherine Zeta-Jones, why not you?
Now, as we reach our 50s and 60s, the situation is somewhat more complicated.